Get through it with Someone

Everyone goes through a time where they feel like they are alone or they really are. They have no where to turn to. There mind begins to consume every moment of their life with worry, issues, fears, sadness, depression and frustration. I don’t believe anyone should have to go through these moments alone.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you have no Family or Friends make sure to find your closest counseling center and confide in someone. I know that it’s not always the easiest admitting that you need help, but it’s a start. I believe that we allow too much pride, emotions or ego to get in the way of us seeking the help that we need. YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

Get through it with someone. It’s ok to be vulnerable at a time in your life and admit you need rescuing for once. Let someone help you in your time of need. Let someone hold you and say everything’s going to be ok. Let someone make you laugh and smile when things seem like they’re never going to turn around. Remember things will get better and you will make it through. GET THROUGH IT WITH SOMEONE!

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Life

img_3111When life makes you feel a certain way keep on keeping on. There will be moments where you feel as though everything is coming against you and there is no way out but there is! We often let life cripple our minds and think we cannot change our circumstance. We think because the people around us didn’t get further that we are limited as well.

I am here to let you know that your life is only limited as much as you allow it. Everyone is aware of some of the greats that have lived in this world; Muhammad Ali, Martin Luther King Jr., Thomas Edison, Kobe Bryant, Ghandi, and those excellent Olympic Figures from every country. They are all amazing people that accomplished phenomenal moments in history. They used their gifted talents to change the world. They went beyond the negative comments and the people that tried to stop them in their path. They fought for what they believed in and didn’t allow all the negativity to take away their dream come true. They succeeded because they did not doubt!

I know that life can throw so much towards you at once. It gives you that feeling of wanting to give up. It will feel like there is no hope to hold onto, but there is! You were born for a great purpose and don’t let anyone tell you anything differently! Life is made to be conquered by you, not the other way around.

Let Us Be Strong

As Humans we feel so many different emotions. We can be happy and joyful over something. We can be so mad at the world the next minute. We can shed tears over a situation so sad and we carry so much emotion within who we are. How we were created is PHENOMENAL!

You know I wonder if people ever stop to consider the fact that emotions and the mind set are two very powerful things that we have. It is all about how you control those emotions and the thoughts that happen in your head when your in the moment. I remember thinking one day about how angry I was. I was so angry about something that just happened to me. I mean I wanted to just jump out of my skin. Than after calming down and thinking about how I was going to handle the situation something inside of me changed. I was no longer angry but I was in a wonder. I was wondering how I could let something get me so upset.

I know that as Humans we are made this way; but we are also made for incredible things. We are stronger than we presume in this life that we live. We tend to limit ourselves and allow other things and people to control us in ways sometimes that don’t need to be. We forget that history can name some of the great successes in the world and all that they have achieved; but why just them? Why should the greatness only be those people? Why should it only be limited to the one’s that make it? But why do they make it?

It’s all about the difference in controlling the emotions and the mind set. Making sure to overcome those trials and tribulations and saying YES I CAN! Choosing to get together for one of the Nations most amazing sports events of the year  The Olympics just to watch the incredibles. However, we are all incredible. We are all capable of these outstanding actions and accomplishments. We are only limited to our mindset and the control of our emotions. We were born to strive and change the world in an unspeakable way. Which one are you? LET US BE STRONG!!

Super Woman & Super Mom

This is for all my lovely ladies that need to never stop hustling. Working hard until our backs hurt and we can barely keep our eyes open. We need to keep on smiling with our babies and show them that no matter what you have to keep on fighting. It’s crazy how much they see when you think they’re not paying attention. These are only some of the reasons why you should never stop being a Super Woman & Super Mom.

This is for all my lovely ladies that have wiped away every tear and kept it pushing. When you sat their and knew you were so tired but you kept on pushing. The times that you still made room to be a wife to your husband, even after dealing with the kids. The time that you helped that sibling even when they didn’t appreciate it at all. You keep on keeping on because you are strong and beautiful. These are only some of the reasons why you should never stop being a Super Woman & Super Mom.

This is for all my lovely ladies that spend 10 months making a baby and still have the strength to be up all hours of the night. Without you their would be no way for that baby to eat. Without you their would be no way for that baby to grow. Without you their would be no other  life to show. Another life to show all the great they can do. We are life creators which is amazing just like you. These are only some of the reasons why you should never stop being a Super Woman & Super Mom.

Super Woman & Super Mom you will forever be blessed. You have an indescribable purpose, so keep living your best. You are loved.

Humble I Will Be

I started to think about how one day life will be so great. It will be where we’ll never have to worry about having enough. I know that everybody sees life in a different way, but I tend to wonder what I can take from it as things change. I paid off my first car ever! I remembered when I got that car I had no credit and barely any money. I was riding in a clunker and kept having to put money to fix it. During this time; my two older sons were only 1 and 2.  I worked an hour away from where I lived and things just kept getting worse. I was frustrated and about ready to break down.

I decided to keep my faith through it all.  I went to several dealerships just to dream that maybe one day I could have a reliable car. I ended up at a dealership and got lucky enough that the sales men was genuinely interested in helping me; rather than trying to make a dollar. There were so many other cars that cost more, that he could of pushed me into; but he listened to my story. He decided that he would do anything possible with what I did have to make a way for what  I didn’t. This was a high end dealership and I thought to myself “there’s no way  I am going to qualify.” By the blessing of God he made it possible with only $500 and no credit. They accepted my clunker and I was able to drive away with a way to transport my children and myself with no worries.

That was 5 years ago today and several car payments later I am a proud owner of a 2009 Chevy Cobalt. I know silly right. The way I’m so excited over such a simple car. A car that is so insignificant at this time in our high expense world; but means everything to me. It is a reminder to me that working hard for the little things are so rewarding; but going through it this way will keep me humble because I know what it was like to struggle for the small things.

The point of my story is to always stay humble with the little things, because when the day comes that your blessed with the greater things you will learn to appreciate them.

Some people don’t realize

You know each day when you wake up and are able to have clothes on your back and a roof over your head,give thanks. When you’ve got food in your fridge and gas in your car,be grateful. The days you breathe without illness or walk with both legs, be happy. The moments you have when you can pay off bills and still have a little fun, show appreciation. Some people don’t realize how blessed they are. That some where else there is someone less fortunate than you. So before you whine about all the things you don’t have or how your much better your life could be. Take a moment to breathe, pray and realize that your ALIVE!! Recognize all that you are blessed with in the moment and know there is more to come.

Failing

In the words of my Father
“Failing is not that your stupid,it just means that
you tried, and of course someone wanted you to stay where your at.
So they themselves don’t feel stupid by not trying themselves, with the result of you alone having accomplishment, by not having a stupid thought,but by having faith in God, and living to see it!”
Happy Father’s Day Weekend Dad I love you with all my heart. You’ve accomplished greatly with raising 5 daughters, being inspirational, never giving up on us, raising us in the gospel and loving us unconditionally. I couldn’t of asked for a better dad in my life.